Yesterday I met a woman who is a writer, actress, survivor of domestic violence, and director of the 2003
University of Tennessee college campaign of
"The Vagina Monologues." She is a graduate of the University of Tennessee at Knoxville, an active member of the
Knoxville Writers' Guild, and a performer of monologues, poetry, song and dance. Last night I was one of several guests at a fellow friend's house to have dinner and meet
Kali Meister. After chatting around with people, catching up on their creative work and interests, I talked with Kali for some time about domestic violence, poetry, theater, and writers' guilds. We shared stories of witnessing violence against women in the communities we have lived in. She's an inspiring individual and to listen to her stories is to be inspired.
Today
she came to Berea College to perform some excerpts from her production,
Exposed. The stories were raw and emotional, some reflecting a friend's experience while others exposed her own childhood fears and nightmares. The monologues and poetry made you sad and some made you laugh a little chuckle. Her exposé delved into sexual abuse, domestic violence, and family relationships. Even the song lyrics for "Into the Night" by
Benny Mardones was quoted. She sings a few lines of it,
"She's just sixteen years old
Leave her alone, they say"
And then she says something to the effect: "Yeah, leave her alone you scumbag pedophile! She is just sixteen!" This one left the audience both surprised at the lyrics and laughing uproariously. Later, the audience saddened by the vision she cast of a girl hiding in her closet with clothes pulled on top of her, only to be found in the dark of night by her drunk stepfather. Kali's performance is both brave and shocking. Her bravery in telling her own story, not just in print but in performance, is inspiring and encouraging.

When I chatted with her Wednesday evening I told her about a festival already in its planning stages. This festival will take place mainly in Lexington, Kentucky, but it will also have some events all over the state. It is called
Until The Violence Stops. The goal and purpose of
the festival is to raise awareness and to inform people of violence against women and girls. Some of the events will be a play full of monologues and stories by national and local authors, another play written and directed by
University of Kentucky students telling their stories, monologues from women in prison who were incarcerated for killing their abusers, the day of the Latin woman, a poetry slam, a tree planting ceremony for elementary students, a writing competition for middle or high schoolers, a bicycling event, a golf event, and numerous other events. This will take place the last two weeks in August 2007. I am hoping that one of my contributions to getting this event underway is gathering some Kentucky authors and poets to participate one way or another in the festival. And I can many of the students here going up to the festival on the weekends, helping out and enjoying the events. Oh, there's even a fashion show.
And did I mention that only two states are producing this festival in 2007? One is Kentucky, and the other is Ohio. Eve Ensler, author of "The Vagina Monologues" is taking the success of
V-Day one more step forward into a festival that draws in people, gets them involved, informs and educates, and changes peoples' lives. The first UTVS festival took place in NYC. Afterwards, a poll asked, "If you witnessed violence against a woman or girl, would you interfere in one way or another?" Many said that before the festival they wouldn't have gotten involved in the situation, but after the festival 1 out of 3 individuals said that they would do something to stop the violence. That's a pretty good statistic. It'd be good the festival has a really powerful affect on people throughout Kentucky.
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